The Golden Rule

Is it possible to always be thinking about treating others in the same way you would want to be treated?  Or are we, as Americans...as humans really, inclined to default to protecting our own self-interests?  I feel that at times I let my emotions direct my actions...and do not treat others like I would like to be treated..  Or I'm just too tired to think about anyone else's needs over mine.

The roundtable discussion in the lunch room turned to jingoism.  My co-worker asked whether everyone must feel some sort of jingoism, and will do what it takes to protect it. Even if this feeling may sometimes trump the Golden Rule.  I see where she is coming from. Her family is a military family and it makes sense to want to fight what you believe in heart and soul.  I feel patriotism and love for my country, but I don't feel extreme patriotism in the form of aggressive foreign policy.  I don't feel that we should force our ideals upon others or expect others to live how we live. In this day and age, I really do question whether I am an outsider in American culture and way of thinking... Anyhow...

On the other hand:  Do you care if others litter?  Speed?  Follow the rules established by society, regardless of which society creates them?  Shouldn't all people have to follow localized rules since you, as a citizen, are expected to follow them?

Another co-worker feels that rules should be followed...period.  She is a self-proclaimed "yes" person, eager to please others and make a difference, even if it is to the detriment to her health or family's well-being.  She believes that rules are there to be followed.

Just some interesting viewpoints to consider...